MaRRiaGe & AdOpTiNg

• well, this issue has been in my mind for quite some time.... i duno y shd i give myself some time to think about it.... maybe its part of life i guess.... haha.... well, the issue that occurs in my mind is about MARRIAGE..... i duno y but maybe i got influenced by the RENJIS series (shown at Astro Ria)..... i love this series so much.... haha.... in fact, my fav song for the time being is KOMPANG DIPALU sung by Waheeda & Izam EYE....

• to add to the issue, ive just got news about my skulmate, back in MRSM who is getting married next month..... she is now currently doing TESL in UK, same as me just that mine is in Msia.... haha.... btw, CONGRATS to NURUL SYAFWAH.....


• well, i nvr think about getting married yet..... it sounds silly but it is the fact of me.... i never bother about it..... in fact, i dun really like to attend weddin ceremony..... weird huh??? i dun care..... as far as im concerned, i nvr give myself headache thinking abt it.... but on the other hand, i think wedding ceremony is amazing.... i just duno y do i say so..... so stupid!!! LOL!!!!


• well, honestly, i duno if i will get married to someone....i just duno if i do..... i believe in Qada' & Qadar..... if there's a jodoh for me, it will.... im very positive about it.... being single doesnt mean the end of the life..... for me, ive got my own plan if i dun get married.... it sounds silly but i think this is my own way.... i dun wanna burden myself thinking hard abt such things....


• so my solution will be, IF I DUN GET MARRIED, I WILL ADOPT KIDS 2 BE MY CHILDREN... no joke man!!! ive thought abt this issue for quite some time.... in fact, i did share this wif sumone that i trust n we agree upon it.... i mean the idea of adopting children.... dude, there r so many children being abandoned out there..... y cant we just be kind enuf to share our love towards them....


• in fact, i believe its a JARIAH if u do so.... sharing what Allah has given to u is a noble thing a mankind can do in his life..... i know, ppl will say that wouldnt u want to hv ur own flesh n blood??? well, my answer is simple..... I DO BUT THERE'S NOTHING WRONG TO ADOPT CHILDREN..... simple n precise enuf to express how much i wanna share what i hv in my life....


• guys, if u think im silly or crazy, its ok.... i dun give it a damn.... to me, marriage is a sacred thing in life n fate is in God's hands.... so i need sumone to accompany me in my old days in future.... so if i dun get married, ill be positive enuf in adopting kids to be my ownchildren.... i cant blame u guys if u wanna criticise me.... :)

-they are cute, arent they???-

-POSTED on 23 Nov 08-