do imagine that u hv just converted into Muslim....n u get married to a Malay girl/boy.....unfortunately, ur parents do no like him/her.....coz ur parents hv planned to marry u to sumone that they have chosen...so what will u do???u love him/her but u hv to bear in mind oso about ur parents....what will u do???will u take a second wife which is ur parents' choice though u dun like her (if u r a man)....or will u ask for a divorce just to satisfy u parents' feelings (if u r a woman)....its a tough thing to do....it is indeed a big challenge coz u r in dilemma....u r in a state of limbo....on the other side, ur parents n the other side is ur spouse....isnt this torturing???u might get headache for thinking over this matter....if i were that person, i wouldnt know what to do....so tiring n challenging.....between love and bless from parents...think about it!!!